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I can still clearly remember how I was always looking for proven steps to get your ex girlfriend back. I spent hundreds of hours searching for it and now give you 3 of the most important ones I have found.
* Reverse psychology at its best *
So you just got dumped? The first thing to do is act as if this is the best thing to happen to you all year. Agree with the break up and say that you have also been thinking about it a lot and you really agree that it is the best thing for both of you.
Then get back to your life, start living again. Be sure to never ever let your ex girlfriend see you weeping in a little pile somewhere. You want to make it seem as if you are rocking life, going to gym again (sure you can just say that you do, but I highly recommend actually going), hanging out with your friends and going to all those parties you missed because of your girlfriend and just generally living life and being a happy person.
This give you amazing value in any woman's eyes, including your ex girlfriend. When she sees how great you are doing, she will serious start thinking about the break up and if it was the right thing to do. You just make sure you remain strong and avoid any contact on purpose. If she eventually contacts you again (and she will), be sure to always be friendly but at the same time...
* Be unavailable *
This links perfectly with the previous tip. This works on a fundamental psychological principle that applies to every person on earth.
The thing a person wants most is the thing that they cannot have.
You are about to become that thing. Like I said, always be friendly, but when you are talking over the phone for example, be sure to always say goodbye first. Say that you see someone else is trying to call you, you'll phone back right now... then don't.
This will leave her wondering what on earth has happened to you. When you eventually talk to her again a day or so later, you of course tell her that your friends was waiting outside and came to pick you up to go for a beer or something similar. Being unavailable like this adds huge heaps of attraction points towards you in her eyes and you will soon start to realize that SHE will become needy as she starts feeling the rejection.
* Find your happy place *
So far I've been saying that you should fake, act and pretend how well you are doing. This is to avoid her realizing that you are still hurting very much from the break-up.
This is all fine and exactly what you should do, but when the time comes to actually put the plan into action you will need to truly be in a happier state than you are right now. Be sure to use some of the time you have free now to do some introspection, get to know yourself and see where you did things wrong in the relationship.
Women have a very sharp sense of observation and can tell when you are faking something. For all this to be truly effective, you have to be at a place in your life where you can go on without her. You shouldn't be dependent on ANYBODY for your own happiness. If she senses that you are just fine without her, it will drive her into your arms as she will crave that validation you give her by loving her again.
That was a few golden tips that I have learned from own experience over the years. For a more detailed, exact blueprint on what to do, check out these steps to get your ex girlfriend back: Steps To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
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