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What To Do If There Is No Spark in Millionaire Dating Offline Meeting

By Andrea Carless

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Alright, so you have already gone through a first face-to-face date with your someone you have met offline. But what if you don't like him, but he still shows a good deal of affection for you? What do you do?

Inasmuch as you would be tempted to just ignore him and not answer his emails, instant messages, or phone calls, you must step on this nasty temptation. Why? Because he has put much effort on actually asking you out and has gone through a whole lot just to see you face-to-face. So you actually owe him the courtesy of being honest with him.

Most women actually hate this part when they need to confront them with the truth.

So you actually thought that it could work, meaning that you thought you had great rapport in your e-mails with each other. You had a good chat in Instant Messaging. And you really thought that your little impromptu talk on the telephone was actually nice and he sounded like a good guy.

But unfortunately, there was no spark in your first face-to-face date with each other. What do you do?

Here are some tips:

1. Don't make instant decisions about your date due to what his wearing, silly comments or nervous actions. Men can get nervous on first dates too, It's always best to give someone a second chance, if he didn't really impress you on the first date. Try going on a second date with him. As cheesy as it might sound, everybody deserves a second chance, right? You never know, maybe he was just nervous and tongue-tied on your first date. Or maybe he got overly flustered and shy with your beauty. We never know. So, how about you give your match another chance? But if you cannot bear to go through another date with him, then proceed to the next advice.

2. Tell him over the phone that you don't think you two can work out. You have already gone through the notions of emails, to IM, to phone calls, and finally arranged your first date. Rejecting him through emails or IM would be too cold. If he tries to contact you through this, tell him that you want to talk over the phone. And no, you cannot call him first just to reject him. Wait for him to call. But before you say anything to reject him, listen to him first. If he sounds like he's aiming to go for a second date, then tell him in a polite, yet firm way that although you enjoyed your first date, you don't think that you two have much in common after all, good luck on finding match though, be positive and you wish him the best. It's best to be honest and let him know how you feel if there is definitely no spark early on.

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