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When Family and Friends Know Best: Getting Them To Help Find Mr. Right

By Andrea Carless

Republish: EasyPublish™ Published: 06Apr2011 Word count: 427 Viewed: 218 time(s) Get Free Content For Your Site

Are you close with your family? Do you have some friends that you can always count on for a listening ear? Are you open to letting your family know about what's going on in your life? And more importantly, are you close enough with them to be open to the things that they might say about your life now?

Talking to your family and friends about the kind of man that you want is a good idea if you want to have serious and truly honest evaluations about the guy that you are thinking of dating. Sometimes, our family members know us better than we know ourselves. They can tell you if that guy is indeed suited for you or not. And the best thing about family is that they never will hesitate to encourage you if they think that you are onto something good, but they will also never hesitate to give you warnings and even to berate you if the guy is bad news.

Family members, especially mothers and sisters, have this eery sixth sense when it comes to the man dating their daughters or sisters. They have this instinct to protect you from jerks, and most of the time, their instincts are correct. In the past, ever wonder why your mum was so encouraging with one boyfriend, while seem to hate another one? Look back, and you will see that the guy she encouraged you to get hooked with, is most likely someone you are still friends with, and one with whom you parted amicably. You will also see that the guy your mum doesn't like (but you like a whole lot), would have likely to have broken your heart at one point or another.

Friends, especially girl friends, have the same instinct. And without candor or reserve, they WILL tell you what they think about the guy even when you don't ask for their opinions. The deal with girl friends, especially those that you have grown up with, is that they have seen how you deal with relationships, and have also scrutinized your past boyfriends through a microscope. So they will take all those investigations and all those perusal, to rate the new guy you are thinking of going on a date with. And with blunt honesty bourne out of love, they'll tell you what they think.

But in the end, you are still going to be the one going on a date. Don't accept their sincere words lightly, but consider them seriously.

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