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One of the biggest problems (if not the biggest problem of all) in web dating is the existence of jealous and possessive men. And ladies, you have got to know how to spot and handle them if your millionaire match or sugardaddie is one.
Now, what's the big deal with these possessive and jealous blokes? Well, while their intentions are true that they are in the market to look for a woman that they can cherish and love, they have this nagging sense of insecurity, which makes them cling possessively to them. They really don't believe that they can keep their ideal girls (you) because of their lack of self-confidence, self-respect, and self-esteem. They don't really believe that they deserve this lady (you), so they try to bend them to their whims and make her dependent on him alone. Actually, this is really sad, once you think about it deeper.
Anyway, as women, we do need to get a better understanding of their psychological make-up before we can know how to handle them. This possessive and jealous guy actually doesn't love himself, so he would go on asking why such a great woman such as yourself would love him back. The man doesn't love himself so he doesn't understand why she loves him either. But he needs to feel she does, so he needs to have expressions as to how far she will go for him. He will promote the positive attitude of staying online together at specific times just so spend more time together. He would endeavor to make you be dependent on him, care about him, and need him, and him alone, so that you wouldn't think of leaving him for anyone else.
Okay, so how does he go on to do that? Well, he will find fictitious and untrue scenarios where he might need your help, which will make you stay online with him. At this time, you'd think he was just being romantic and only wants more time with you. A perfectly natural reaction, by the way. But little by little, this possessive and jealous man will eat away your social time with other people and activities. In so doing, he is separating you slowly from others, to fulfill his own needs.
The next thing that he will try to do is to make you feel bad about yourself to ensure that you will have such a low self-esteem that you will cling to him. He'll tell you how much of a catch he is and how you're lucky to have him and he will love you no matter what.
By now, he has you where he wants you. A dependent and isolated woman. But this won't mean that he will trust you. He will always believe that you will leave him at some point, so he will continuously find ways to make you more dependent on him.
Don't fall victim to these possessive and jealous mean in web dating. They are dangerous, and you would really want to steer away from them. Avoid these men and watch for these signs at Millionaire Dating and continue to be a confident and beautiful woman. Be vigilant in guarding yourself against these destructive behaviors. Read up more on dating tips and more advise at Millionaire Matchmaker.
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