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Is Your Millionaire Match on the Rebound?

By Andrea Carless

Republish: EasyPublish™ Published: 07Nov2009 Word count: 517 Viewed: 314 time(s) Get Free Content For Your Site

Most, if not all, serious relationships truly do affect both parties. So much so, that when or if it ends, the people involved go through the same five stages of grief and suffer through lost self-esteem and self-confidence. So what do they do when they go through a low-time such as that? Well, they enter a rebound relationship, and if they are into online dating, then this might be a bit of a warning for you. And seriously, most girls would not want to be the rebound girl because rebound girls do not USUALLY get the man in the end.

You need to learn to trust yourself that you do have a lot to bring to the relationship. Besides, you can show him and yourself, that you can help him recover from his previous relationship by being your fun and wonderful self.

Often, men rush into a relationship after break-ups or after a divorce because they want to assure themselves that they can still get someone to like them. It's a self-image thing. Most often than not, men see it as a personal failure when a relationship ends. So, they compensate for this emotional loss through rushing into a relationship right-away. Thus, a rebound relationship.

How can you tell that your guy is on the rebound? Well, there's no definite way to know this. The best that you can do is to observe the subtle signs that he may give. If he always pressures you to move faster into the relationship, then there's an off chance that he's on the rebound and is looking for someone in a hurry to be with him. You can also check out his profile, and see whether he mentioned pat relationships. Then check out his status and observe things like if he just recently got divorced or gotten out of a relationship recently.

Now, I am not at all saying that a rebound relationship is entirely bad. No. In some ways, you will help that person get a move on from his previous hurts and pains. And remember that if a rebound relationship does develop, it is still a relationship of some sorts, and it was established because you two have something in common. Also, men on rebound relationships tend to be more attentive and would want to spend more time with you. Why? Because they don't want to feel lonely or bored, or end up thinking of their exes.

However, it isn't always rainbows. For one thing, you would have these questions "Does he compare me to his ex? How do I measure up?" at the back of your head. And if these questions continue to bother you, then naturally, you can't fully give yourself into the relationship. Another thing is that your guy hasn't really put much evaluation on you and the past relationship that he had just had. He needs time to evaluate where things go wrong before he can successfully have a good relationship with someone else. If he fails to realize where the past relationship failed, then I doubt if he can make new ones successful.

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