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Dating Tips For Single Mums: The 3 Steps To Deciding What You Want In Mr. Right

By Andrea Carless

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If you think that finding someone to date is tough after a divorce is tough, then finding Mr. Right might seem impossible. What affects your dating odds is your perspective about getting dates, boyfriends and yes- Mr. Right. If you want your social and dating life to be healthy, then you should know what kind of partner you want. Better put this on top of your dating priorities especially while you are unattached to anyone, that way your standards won't be based on one person.

1. Begin by writing down characteristics , a wish list of what you want in your future partner. Realise that even though outward appearances do count, but it fades with time. So it's better that you put the physical features on second and try to look at how attractive their attitudes and characteristics are. Always include those features in which is important to you in a man and what makes you happy.

Here are some of the things that women wish to see with their Mr. Right: Hardworking but not a workaholic, willing to help out and offers a hand, a gentleman, likes to have fun and relax, shares similar interests, likes and background, dependable with good ethics, responsible, romantic and affectionate, likes similar sports and activities, respects your freedom, isn't demanding, comfortable around the kids, share similar goals in life, thinks about the children and shares his plans and goals.

2. Evaluate past partners. List the things, characteristics that attracted you to ex-boyfriends, past lovers and the ex-husband. How many of THEIR traits has matched to this in your wish list? If you see a connection between the traits that you needed in connection to the men that you had, find out if there are similarities with these men. If the essential qualities for you are "honest", "kind", "helpful"; but you tend to be in a relationship with men who are "good looking", "sexy", "great in bed"; then realise that there is a conflict going on. Be aware of this conflict and resist the temptation to go out with these men, you can dance with them but don't be emotionally attached or else you're just going around in circles.

3. Take action. Find that Mr. Right and don't just settle less than your expectations, you'd be pleasantly surprised when you get to find him. Knowing what you want and need before jumping into a relationship helps you to figure out which ones are the Mr. Right potentials from the not-so-good partner material. By doing so, you can easily find compatibility and develop your relationship. So here are the steps for you to consider before finding Mr. Right.

Remember these tips and make your own Mr. Right wish list and evaluate yourself so you'd be able to find Mr. Right and shun Mr. Wrong.

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