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Get Rid Of These Two Common Online Dating Chemistry Ruts Once And For All

By Andrea Carless

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Sometimes you think that everything is just too good to be true- now that kind of mentality is the one keeping you out to finding your perfect match in the first place. Sometimes, you have to face some dating problems that are either self imposed or either lady luck is not on your side.

So here's some eye opener for you; some real life dating ruts and how you need to face them and solve them.

Dating Rut #1: I've been igniting the flame but still NO SPARKS! Answer: Forget all the romance and focus more on the "friend factor"

You may have found countless matches but no matter what you do, date after date- there just seems to be no spark, no chemistry, not even an ember! All of your relationships have no improvement and is not heading anywhere. Okay, give yourself and your dates a breather. Whenever you date someone, don't pounce on the idea of a head over heels chemistry and connection in a snap of a finger. After that, when you get turned off several times you start to think that dating is a waste of time. No it's not! Just change your line of thought from finding that romantic spark to friend factor. Take it easy. Going in a pursuit of friendship first rather than love can bring unexpected twists. Having friendship in mind takes the pressure off the date by learning more about the person, and finding common ground and interests instead of turning them down whenever you think your flame is doused. More likely, chemistry can develop later just be consistent.

Dating Rut #2: Your date's profile looks perfect! But is it really? Answer: Your personal feelings versus your future dates profile

Pay attention to yourself this time: how do you feel when you're with him versus how he says he is on his profile. Chemistry, it just doesn't mean instant connection or finding someone you think would be a great long term partner. Okay, he might be the perfect date for a start; wonderful qualities and looks to die for. So you are now going out and you just love his gregariousness, however, can you level with his gregariousness? Or you rather turn compliant instead of your usual self? Don't just ask yourself: "do I like this person?" but rather ask yourself, "do I like myself when I'm with him or her?".

So here are two of the most common chemistry problems in online dating. So have you found yourself in one or both of these problems? Now, here are just a few tips for you to finally fix them! Go out there and start mixing that chemistry right this time.

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