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How to Make Up with your Ex after a nasty Breakup

By Carl Willoughby

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Published: 07Jul2008
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If you're still suffering from a breakup:
- You're thinking about it and about him all the time
- You love your ex so much it's "driving you crazy"
- You're feeling constant pain and frustration.
- You can't stop thinking about him, no matter how hard you try.

You're NOT Alone! Many of us have survived these same heart-broken feelings and emotions. A break up is an emotional roller-coaster of very difficult feelings to deal with - Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness. Depression. Desperation.

You see happy couples walking hand-in-hand and you feel like crying for no reason...

As hopeless and frustrated as you feel, there is a real and simple solution that can help you... You Can Make Up With YOUR Ex - even after a nasty breakup and even if it seems impossible.

I know it's hard to believe but for almost every break up for whatever reason such as:

- Cheating and infidelity
- Loss of love, passion, sex
- Plain old loss of interest
- Loss of Romance
- Neglect
- Poor treatment or even worse... There is hope.

Most relationships CAN be saved. There IS A Surprisingly Simple Way To Get Your Ex Back! And it begins with...

Your Opening Move!

You Can Re-ignite His Desire To Want to be with You and even have him pleading with you to come back. And I'm going to tell you the first step, right now!

But first a word of caution...
On-and-off dating can be heart-breaking and even abusive! Always make sure that your reasons for getting back together are genuine.

- Never forget the reason you broke up in the first place.
- Never let a man take advantage of you or abuse you.

OK. Now, just imagine your guy just told you that he's not happy anymore and wants to end things. You're DEVASTATED...

What went wrong? What should you do?

The thing you should do first is very counter-intuitive to what you feel inside (because you still love him and want to stay together).

The first thing you should do is agree with him about the breakup. What you should say is...

"You know Sweetie, you're right. I've seen this coming and you know what, a breakup is the best thing for both of us.

In fact, I'm glad you brought that up because I've been thinking the same thing for a long time and this is probably the best thing to do for the both of us".

Act as if you're OK about the breakup. Whoa! Am I serious? You Bet! You see, there are a lot of reasons why this works. And one of them is that...

People want what they can't have. By agreeing with him about the breakup, you are no longer available to him. You are a free agent. Believe it or not, this makes you MORE attractive to him.

Now remember, this is just your first step - your opening move. But it is an effective strategy that works to help you make up after a nasty breakup.

OK, some of you are saying...
But we've been broken up a good while now and I'm way beyond that point. He won't talk to me. He doesn't answer his phone. I leave messages, he doesn't call back. What do I do now?

One of the most effective opening moves in that situation, is to write a hand-written letter (not typed, not emailed - a hand-written letter) and say...

"You know what, I've been acting kind of crazy lately and I'm sorry. It's just that I miss you. I've been thinking about us a lot lately and I've come to realize...

You're exactly right.

I agree that we should be broken up and it's probably the best thing for the both of us". And that is your opening move. It's not the end of your relationship (which has already ended), it's just the beginning of a complete strategy to get back together.

Just like in a game of chess, it's just a first, opening move, not an end game move. It's the first step that you need to take to get back with your ex.

You see, the first thing you have to do is get on their side. You have to let them go, before they will ever want to come back. By using this opening move you have taken the first step to re-creating attraction and re-establishing a deep emotional connection.

Carl Willoughby has worked as a Licensed Registered Representative for the Prudential Insurance Company in New York City. He teaches strategies - from opening moves to getting back together with your ex and keeping your relationship strong... Visit his website: http://www.RelationshipAdviceForMakingUp.com

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