Article Directory :: Self-Improvement/Motivation Articles

Why Focusing On Your Need For Money Will Reinforce Your Neediness

By David Hurley

Republish: EasyPublish™ Published: 01Jul2008 Word count: 607 Viewed: 418 time(s) Get Free Content For Your Site

Have you ever thought about how your “need" for money could be the biggest obstacle preventing you from getting the money you "need"? Getting past this problem is a key "success secret" that should be a part of every success mentoring program.

One of the reasons why it is unhelpful to focus on the thought that you "need money" is because it is likely to cause you to lower your horizons and grab the first offer that comes your way.

If you are in a situation where you feel that you really do “need the money”, what would happen if you didn’t get it?

When you come up with an answer, ask yourself what would you do next... Even if you did not get the money you "needed" there could well be other opportunities out there that prove to be much better - because no single opportunity is the be all and end all of a situation.

Here’s another question: How long could you live without this money before you'd have to go and live on the streets?

I know of someone who thought he “needed money” but, when he did this exercise, he discovered that he could probably survive for ten years before turning himself out to the mercy of the streets.

Working with a success mentoring coach, he decided to concentrate on building his business on the assumption that he had enough money to live.

Now, instead of focusing on his "neediness" and his fear of poverty, he based all of his decisions on his vision of the future and his desire for success.

And, guess what... in less than a year he was making TEN TIMES more money than he had been doing when focusing on his fears and his perceptions of neediness.

You might think that this person was a lot less needy than you are and so it was much easier for him.

Well, if that is what you are determined to believe, so be it.

Nevertheless, his experience does illustrate a very interesting fact.

When you let go of neediness and start acting on what you desire from the point of view of who you aspire to be, you are no longer working out of desperation, but out of inspiration.

As I said earlier, a sense of neediness will cause you to settle for the first thing that comes your way. Focusing on negatives reinforces them in your life and tip the balance of favour against you.

But when you act as if you already have plenty of money and are assured that you will have more, you will find yourself moving forward with the assurance of a sleepwalker.

You then make decisions not only without fear, but with joyfulness, and you can ask for what you want and making your vision plain without fear of loss.

Sadly, most of us have been conditioned to be motivated by fear and worry. Unfortunately, fear is a terribly ineffective state within which to make decisions.

What is fear?

Fear is a belief in our inadequacy to deal with something.*

When you are in a state of fear you shrink and suffer a loss of inspiration and a narrowing of vision. You become desperate, and your desperation conveys a negative message to other people who now avoid dealing with you.

But when you operate in a state of self belief, courage, optimism and benevolence for others, you radiate ease and well-being. Your creativity grows. You become more open to opportunities around you and others are drawn to you and eager to do business with you.

*Source: Harry Palmer, Living Deliberately, p. 84

EasyPublish™ this article - publishers click here

More articles by David Hurley

Free Report!
Ten Essential Secrets Of Article Marketing ... Grab Your Free
Copy Now:

Need Content?
Regular Top Quality Content for your Blog, Ezine or Website ...
Delivered Direct,
For Free!
Click For Details