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On the final day of the US Open in 2001, Retief Goosen arrived at the 18th green with two shots for the title. His ball was barely ten feet away from the hole.
His first putt sent the ball eighteen inches past the hole.
But still, an eighteen inch putt for the title is quite a nice position to be in...
He putted...
... and missed again!
It was as if he had snatched defeat from the jaws of victory - in front of an astonished crowd, and in full view of the media. There was nowhere to run and hide, and the next day he'd have to face the crowds and the television cameras and take part in an 18-hole play-off - provided, of course, that he could hole the damned ball on his third putt!
At this point his caddy advised him just to focus on putting the ball into the hole, and this he did.
The next day, he did face the cameras and the crowds, and, most importantly of all, he faced up to himself, and won the championship with two shots to spare.
When I first heard this story I was reminded of the lines from one of the songs in the classic film version of Ian Fleming's children's novel, "Chitty Chitty Bang Bang," which goes:
"Every glowing path that goes astray, Shows you how to find a better way. So every time you stumble never grumble. Next time you'll bumble even less! For up from the ashes, up from the ashes, grow the roses of success! "
Well, not quite!
The song makes the movement from disaster to success sound natural and effortless. It seems to be saying that you needn't worry because the roses WILL inevitably grow.
But any golfer would tell you that Goosen's recovery was a breathtaking achievement. There was nothing inevitable about it.
Most golfers would simply lack the resources to recover their poise after such a monumental, nerve-shattering disaster.
But Goosen was no stranger to disaster on the golf course. During a round of golf in 1986 he was struck by a bolt of lightning which charred his clubs and tore off his clothes, and left him lying unconscious and badly burned.
"It taught me to stay out from under trees in lightning storms," says Goosen.
But the fact that he was back on the golf course as soon as he was able to put shoes and socks on his burned feet suggests that the experience taught him a lot more.
Here was an almost literal recovery from the ashes of disaster. But the roses did not simply grow, they had to be cultivated - that is the key.
I am not suggesting that everybody needs to have had a disaster in order to succeed, but, as Gary Eby says, "You can't have a testimony until you've had a test."
Having a mentor helps too. When Goosen was crouching on the ground dealing with the missed second putt it was his caddy who acted as the mentor, telling him to focus on putting the third putt in the hole.
Draw on your inner strength in testing times, make disaster the foundation for new growth, focus on what you have to DO... and do it.
That way, the line from the song can be interpreted in a different way. It is no longer a simple statement that roses grow on the ashes of disaster, but an IMPERATIVE CALL TO ACTION:
Go and GROW the roses of success on the ashes of disaster!
They will grow, but only if you go and grow them.
David Hurley is an Internet marketer who is based in Japan and is the owner of http://grasp-the-nettle.com, which focuses on success mentoring for Internet marketing start-ups. Get your own work-from-home Internet business set up free and find out how you can build an online business and master the net.
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