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How Do You Get A Guy To Propose? 11 Fears He Has About Marriage

By Derek Blandford

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Published: 31Jan2012
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How on earth do you get a guy to propose? This may seem like an impossible task if you're dating a commitment phobic boyfriend.

When you know in your heart he's the one, what can be done to get him to drop to one knee and ask for your hand in marriage?

After all, it seems like he'd rather have a root canal or get his liver removed than commit to being your husband. The trick to turning your boyfriend into your husband is to understand why men are commitment phobic and then do what you can to alleviate those fears.

Take just a couple minutes and read to the end of this article and you'll discover 11 common reasons why men won't propose.

How Do You Get A Guy To Propose? Alleviate These 11 Fears And Your Chances Increase Ten Fold

Here are 11 fears men have about commitment. Alleviating them in your boyfriend's mind will move him many steps closer to giving you the proposal you want.

1.) He fears he won't be able to take care of you and a future family financially because he understands many women don't work after getting married, choosing instead to be stay at home moms.

2.) He fears he will no longer get to spend time with his buddies doing "guy stuff".

3.) He fears he'll lose his goals and dreams because work will become more about which job pays more rather than which job is the one he really wants.

4.) He fears he will no longer have privacy and won't get any time to himself.

5.) He's comfortable in the relationship the way it is. If you're already living with him, he may feel he has everything he needs in the relationship. In his mind, "If it ain't broke, why fix it?"

6.) He fears you will change and will no longer care about your appearance the way you did when you first started dating. He wants to know you're still going to dress cute and sexy for him from time to time and aren't going to turn into a lazy slob who eats Ben and Jerry's all day and lounges around in sweatpants and baggy sweatshirts.

7.) He fears you'll stop admiring him and will start finding all his faults and flaws.

8.) He fears the added responsibilities of being a husband and/or father will cause you to try and change him.

9.) He fears he's too young for marriage. He just isn't ready yet. Most men don't seriously start thinking about marriage until after the age of 24.

10.) He fears sex and intimacy will diminish after marriage and kids.If he's been married before, he fears the same situation will happen to him again.

11.) He's gun shy.

By knowing what men want and alleviating his fears about marriage, you'll be one step closer to getting the proposal you've always wanted.

Next, here's how to make him addicted to you. If you want to create an intense desire in your man that will make you utterly irresistible to him, then understand men in a way few women will ever know that will help you fulfill his desire, become the sole focus of his affection, and make him fall in love with you at: How To Make A Guy Want You

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