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Should I Text My Girlfriend If I Want Her Back After a Breakup?

By Derek Blandford

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Published: 01Feb2012
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If that question has recently been going through your mind, then this article can help you handle texting in the right way to give you the best chance of winning your ex girlfriend back.

With the arrival of cell phones, texting has become an interesting and important aspect to relationships. Your girlfriend is never out of reach. With texting, you can reach her at home. You can reach her at work. You can reach her when she's in class or at the mall.

But that poses a huge problem when it comes to breakups. Here's why.

One of the most important pieces of the puzzle to getting your ex girlfriend back is to create space after a breakup. However, texting makes this extremely difficult.

For many men, it's simply too tempting not to text an ex. You have your phone on you all the time so the urge to contact your ex becomes increasingly harder to resist. However, it's imperative to create space for a couple of reasons.

First, creating space allows your ex girlfriend to miss you. If she doesn't miss you, then there's no chance she'll want you back.

Second, space allows both you and your girlfriend to have the time you need to sort out your feelings so you know exactly what you want. It prevents you from making any hasty decisions you'll only regret later.

After the breakup, text your ex and tell her you accept the breakup and hope you can still be friends sometime down the road. If you did something wrong, briefly apologize, but don't go into any great detail. Then, break off contact for a couple weeks. This means no more texting (or phone calls, emails, etc.).

If your ex initiates the contact and texts you during this time, then be polite, but don't just rush over to see her. You might text something back like, "It's great to hear from you. I hope you're doing well. Unfortunately, I'm super busy this week, but maybe we can get coffee and talk in a couple weeks when things die down."

By doing this, you've just turned the tables on the entire relationship. You've shown her you're not needy or desperate because you're not constantly texting her and you're not dropping everything just to rush over to see her the minute she contacts you.

When she starts feeling like you're not just sitting around waiting for her and she really could lose you forever, that's when she'll start desperately wanting you back.

Next, here's how to get your ex back. If you really want your girlfriend back, discover how to use tiny text messages sent from your cell phone to create attraction, heal old wounds, and repair your relationship so you can start fresh with your ex. Most experts say never text your ex after a breakup. This could be the one exception: Text Your Ex Back

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