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Why Men Have Affairs - Revealing Insights Into The Type Of Man Who Cheats

By Derek Blandford

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Published: 19Apr2012
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What separates men who have affairs from those who don't? Even when a relationship turns sour, some men choose to cheat while others don't. When men are polled about relationships and affairs, the unsettling truth comes out.

There are in fact core reasons why men have affairs. When you understand these reasons, you can address your own relationship in ways to make a guy fall in love with you so he never wants to leave.

Revealing Insights From Men Who Have Affairs

Men who cheat offer revealing insights women can use to enhance their own relationships and keep their man from straying. So why do men cheat? Here are 8 of the most common reasons:

1.) "I'm married to a woman who nags and complains incessantly."

2.) "I can't keep my wife happy anymore. Even when I try to do something right, it ends up backfiring on me."

3.) "I don't have freedom over my own life anymore. It's constant 'do this', 'do that'. I fee like she's controlling my life."

4.) "She used to care about looking good for me. Now she just let's herself go and I'm losing the physical attraction I once felt for her."

5.) "Sex? I wish I knew what that was. It's been ages since we made love."

6.) "Our relationship isn't fun and exciting anymore. Just seems like it's nothing but stress. I'm stressed all day at work and then I have to come home to a relationship that makes me feel even more stressed."

7.) "I don't feel admired or appreciated any longer. She used to make me feel like her Prince Charming."

8.) "I can't really say why I cheated. I got approached by a super attractive woman and I guess I couldn't resist."

So what can women take away from all this?

First, if a man is happy in a relationship, he is much less likely to cheat. Thus, you need to understand what men want. Always do what you can to make your man feel admired and appreciated. Never make him feel like you are trying to change him.

Men react much better to positive reinforcement than they do to nagging and complaining. Most women simply don't understand this.

The way to get what you want from your man is to reward him when he does something right, rather than yelling or complaining when he does something wrong. It's in his nature to want to please you and make you happy if you don't cause him to become defensive and guarded.

Next, realize sometimes men cheat simply because they can. It's not your fault. He may even be happy in his relationship with you, but temptation may be too powerful to resist. Men are able to separate love and sex much more easily than women. In their own mind, they justify that cheating is ok because "it's just sex, not love."

Next, here are some awesome text message techniques you can use to text the romance back and spark interest and desire in your man. If you really want to create a deep desire in your man that will make you utterly irresistible to him so you can become the sole focus of his affection and make him fall in love with you, visit: How To Make A Guy Want You

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