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By Dionis Fernandez

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Many times girlfriends and boyfriends breakup during the course of their relationship. Some of the time they can work things out and get back together. However, other times the couples can't find their way back to each and part for good. Then there are those side times when the injured party wants revenge.

Many times when the gals get hurt by their boyfriends they want revenge for their pain. Ex-girlfriend revenge can be a hard thing to live with on both sides. The ex-girlfriend is not moving on with her life as long as she is plotting her revenge. The ex-boyfriend has to deal with her anger and sometimes he would like to get back with her if she would only forgive him. Boyfriends can do a similar thing to their ex-girlfriends.

The are many that are out that do think that revenge is the right way to go and that they will get some pleasure from it. If you are one of these people then you need to know that whatever pleasure you get from revenge it can cause you some discomfort too. You will be dredging up hurtful memories over and over for one thing. In the end you will still have to forget the pain and move forward with your life or you will need to forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend and go back with him/her.

Revenge just makes matters worse under any circumstances. If you get in the habit of plotting revenge every time someone upsets you then you are going to have a hard mad life. Revenge comes out of anger and there are many times the boyfriends, girlfriends, family members, and friends will make you made in your life. If you stay mad at them you will be feeding your anger. This can actually even cause you health problems for the stress of it.

It is much better to try to forgive the people that upset you even if it is is your boyfriend or girlfriend. It does not mean you have to get back with them. It just means that you put down the anger and quit plotting revenge. You don't need to stop living your life to plot revenge! Let it go and start living again.

You can carry the thing about an eye for an eye too far. This only makes a bunch of people blind! This can be a never-ending cycle when you believe this way. You get revenge on the person that hurt then they may want to get revenge for you getting revenge!

Through forgiveness you stop the cycle from even starting. This way you can feel good about life again and enjoy being alive. This is how we are suppose to live our lives. We are not suppose to be constantly plotting revenge.

Go find someone else to date if you are that mad at your boyfriend/girlfriend. Leave them behind in but do it with forgiveness in your heart so you don't eat yourself up with anger. In the end being happy in your life and forgiving your wrongdoer is much easier for you to do too. It takes a lot of time, energy, and just plain work to plot revenge. In the end you will just wear yourself out! Forgive! Bookmark and Share

Find out more about relationships by visiting 100QuestionsBeforeMarriage.com. Blog where many important post are published such as Questions To Ask A Girl.

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