Article Directory :: Social Articles How to get more dates By Eileen Edwards Republish: EasyPublish™ Published: 21May2009 Word count: 410 Viewed: 234 time(s) Get Free Content For Your Site Most men will experience some hesitation in asking you out. Why? Because you might say "no" which could be a blow to his ego. So he will probably talk around the subject by asking if you have seen a certain film or eaten in a particular restaurant. The important thing here is to show interest. For example " I haven't seen xyz film but I've heard its had good reviews I would definitely like to see it". Or "Yes I did see it, I thought that it was so good that I could see it again". Or "I did see it, did you"? Depending on his answer "what did you think of it"? "Did you know that the same director has made abc film which is currently showing locally"? This obviously gives your potential date a lead into asking you out. Be popular to be popular- Have you ever noticed how the busy restaurant or hairstylist attracts even more customers? Ever looked for a place to eat in an unfamiliar area and been instinctively attracted to the full restaurant rather than the half-empty one next door? This is called the law of social proof by psychologists. It also explains why it's easier to get a boyfriend when you have a boyfriend. What I am going to suggest sounds counter intuitive, in other words it won't sound right but it does work. The next time you are invited on a date at short notice be busy. Ideally you won't just be saying this then sitting at home alone, you will be living the life of a successful single. In other words you'll have friends and interests outside dating. You'll enjoy cosy evenings at home alone but only when you want to. If he is interested he will ask you out again. In fact he will probably immediately suggest another time for you to meet. Do make it clear that you are interested in spending time with him, assuming of course that you are. Just don't be too available as this devalues time spent with you. If all else fails and you are really interested ask him out. Invite him to a friend's dinner party. If she isn't planning one perhaps you could ask her to as a favour and offer to do the same for her in return. Or have a spare ticket to the opera or a Man United game which ever is likely to be of most interest to him. Eileen went from disaster to success in her relationships by using the insights of psychology. Now qualified as a psychologist she is passionate about helping other women to do the same.Want to learn more about being successful in dating and relationships? You can claim Eileen's free Love Magnet report, simply email her at eileen@eileenedwards.co.uk Website http://www.eileenedwards.co.uk EasyPublish™ this article - publishers click here More articles by Eileen Edwards

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