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How to Break Up With Someone You Love?

By Jimmy Goh

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Published: 12Dec2011
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Sometimes it is very necessary to break up with your partner even though you know that you still love them. It could be situational factors that are causing problems in your relationship or even something to do with your family. Either way, breaking up with someone that you love is probably one of the most painful break ups that you have to go through.

There are people who are periodically break up with their partners on a whim. We shall leave them be because this article does not concern them in the least. However, there are those of you who have happily been in relationships but yet feel that now is the time to break up with your partner. How do you do it? There is of course no fast and easy way. Still, there are some guidelines that you can follow when breaking up with someone you love.

Of course, you would need to determine if you really want to go ahead with the breakup in the first place. If you are still in two minds about it, it would be very worth it to consider if breaking up is the only option available to you. You should then ask yourself some simple questions about your relationship. Is it difficult having a serious conversation with your partner? Is your relationship worth another shot? If your partner promises to change, would you believe them? In the first place, is there a need to break up anyway?

Now, if after looking through all those questions and your answers still lead on to a breakup, here are some pointers that can help you make it as easy as possible. After all, you don't want it to end in a fighting or shouting match, do you?

Possibly the best thing you can do at the time being is to leave your partner for a few days. This is important because it will actually help you distance yourself from your partner - both emotionally and physically. The best outcome would also be that your partner might discover the real intention of your disappearance so that they will be prepared for the worst i.e. you want to break up with them.

You should also take this time to think of reasons why you want to break up with your partner. This step is important because it gives you the opportunity to evaluate your feelings towards them. You could also think over each of the different reasons and analyse the causes. When it is the time for you to break up with your partner, you will find that it is a lot easier to answer their questions since you have done this little exercise.

Technology has of course made it a lot easier for us to take the coward's way out by e-mailing or texting our partner to tell them of our intention to break up with them. Still, you should do the honourable thing and at least have the decency to break up with your partner face to face. You owe them that much since you obviously shared a past and history together.

Once you have told them that it is entirely your decision to break up and you are firm about it, do not back down if they plead. The most important thing would be to keep your distance away from your ex-partner at this point.

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