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When Is It Time to Break Up

By Jimmy Goh

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Published: 12Dec2011
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Being in a relationship is good because it means that you have someone special to share your life with. However, there comes a point where relationships turn unhealthy and that is when you have to start thinking of breaking up with your partner. It doesn't matter that you still love her. It is either you do something to turn your relationship back onto a positive track or you have to face the option of letting her go so you can lead your own life.

There are couples who enjoy time apart from each other because it gives them space to do the things that they like. Then again, there are couples who stick with each other all the time that it is rare that you see them apart for even one second. Now you might be the kind of person who enjoys the company of your loved one so much so that you start to neglect other aspects of your life. Sad to say, that is extremely unhealthy so you should do something about the relationship.

Worst case scenario would be that you are spending so much time with your partner that you never see your friends or close relatives anymore. Even your work is slipping because you are always attending to her needs first. If that is the case, it is definitely time for you to think of other alternatives than this obsessive relationship that you are in. After all, there will be no way you can continue enjoying with your partner if you lose your steady income every month.

Yes, we know that you love her. However, isn't she being a tad too possessive? Whenever you plan something with other friends, some emergency or other is bound to happen to her. It comes to a point where your friends are now fed up with your lackadaisical attitude when it comes to them that they don't even bother inviting you out with them anymore. It is always nice to have someone there with you all the time. Unfortunately, if she is the only person you see, there definitely is something wrong with your relationship and it would be a good time to think about breaking up with her.

Another warning sign would be if she discourages you from doing the things that you enjoy. For example, if you love jungle trekking but have stopped just because she has been nagging you about it for ages, then you should evaluate your relationship. To be fair to her, it could only because she is concerned about your safety. However, you are a grown man who is capable of taking care of yourself.

Another danger sign would be if your girl disappears for weeks on end without any attempt to contact you or share her feelings with you. It is almost as if you do not have a partner at all. While there are things you can do to reason away her behaviour, if it has become a frequent habit, there shouldn't even be a question of whether you should break up with her. There is no point being in a relationship if the both of you are never together at all.

Stop making excuses for her behaviour. If she was concerned about this relationship, she would try her hardest to salvage what she shares with you. At the very least, she will talk to you and let you know her feelings and why she is doing so. Just disappearing like that basically proves that the relationship means nothing to her.

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