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Are you grieving for the end of your relationship? Are you crying a lot and missing your ex with an aching and broken heart? Are you reliving the harsh words, the arguments and the recriminations so that you can't think of anything else? Are you of two minds?
On the one hand you want to do anything it takes to get your ex back and to save your relationship, while on the other hand you want to drive them out of your mind, take revenge on them and move on to better things. All of this turmoil is quite normal in the immediate aftermath of a relationship breakdown. So now it is time to take a deep breath, calm your heart and realize that it is up to you what happens next.
Here are three things you can do to take control of your relationship.
1) Accept the reality. OK you have been rejected, but that doesn't mean you have to accept your ex's evaluation of you. Wake up and smell the coffee and stop with the denial. It not only could happen to you it has happened so do you want to get back with your ex or not?
A word of warning here. If there was any violence involved, either verbal or actual, forget the bastard and move on. End of story!
2) Do not do blame. It is no one's fault, least of all yours. There is nothing especially wrong with you. Relationships come and go all the time. It is part of life's rich pattern.
A more important question than who was more at fault than whom is what did you learn from this experience? What will you do differently if you want to save your relationship? Or what will you take forward for yourself and your next soul mate?
3) It's make-your-mind-up time. What does your heart tell you? Is your ex worth the effort to save your relationship or are you moving on?
So now is the moment to decide. If you want to save your relationship, make the changes to your lifestyle and approach that will help you rebuild a better relationship. Write down your personal mantra and go for it right now.
Recovering and learning from a broken relationship is all about changing your state of mind to a positive mental attitude that will save your relationship or save you for the next better relationship.
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