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MENTAL ILLNESS - THE RECOVERY JOURNEY

By Kaye Dennan

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ARE YOU A CARER FOR A MENTALLY ILL PERSON? IN MOST CASES THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL AND YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO FIND IT!

I used to think that anyone afflicted with a mental illness was going to be a very ill person for the rest of their lives.

From first-hand experience I can tell you that it is very possible for a person with a mental disorder to gain a reasonable standard of living after suffering from a chronic mental illness.

For some, a mental illness may only last a couple of weeks or months, but for others the time could lead into many years.

I am a carer, and certainly no medical expert, but I am speaking from experience of my own situation and from observing many other situations with people who I personally know and who have suffered chronic illnesses.

GETTING A DIAGNOSIS There are many types of mental disorders and because of the fact that specialists are dealing with matters of the mind, it is often hard to: 1. Establish the symptoms because at the time of ill health, communication can be a severe hindrance, or 2. The client could be showing symptoms of several different illnesses. So unfortunately, it often does take a while for a good diagnosis to be formed.

Having said that, once you know what you are dealing with as a carer, I would suggest that you find out as much information as you can about the particular illness, then, as soon as you think there is a chance, start taking positive steps towards recovery.

Recovery is a bit of a misnomer in that it seems to be an 'if and when' situation, and every single case is different.

RECOVERY Ten years ago when my son became ill with paranoid/schizophrenia all we could think of was that 'this illness will go away soon and all will be well'. But it wasn't quite that simple and there certainly are too many stories to tell now. Once you have seen your loved one go to the depths of 'hell' all you want is for them to be "OK", well, anyway that was what we thought. All these years on and with the knowledge I have now, I know that life can be so much better than we ever expected.

Now, I am so happy to say, my son is living independently in a self contained flat on the property, drives his own car and maintains it, sorts out his own medication (with a little prompting at times), feeds and clothes himself to a fairly high standard and handles his finances well. A situation I was starting to think I would never see again. So, to all carers and family members reading this article I would encourage you not to give up hope but work through that horrendous first stage of everyone learning to cope with the illness and support the person who is ill as our journey, as carer and family, is nowhere as bad as their journey. It may only take months for things to settle down but, as in our case, it may take years.

One very important issue though in the recovery process is that the environment they live in is relatively positive, or certainly not volatile, and I know from experience that at times that is very hard to achieve. But don't give up - it is such a wonderful feeling to see them getting on with their lives again, having a laugh and joining in social occasions.

Another very important issue, I believe is getting the medication right and it being taken on a regular basis and again this is easier said than done!

COPING AS A CARER Learn to understand why they do what they do, and what the possibilities are of other behaviours that they may adopt, but try and keep an open mind. If you are forewarned to some of the behaviours they may have, you will cope so much better.

I have now seen a number of people who have been chronically ill regain a positive and meaningful life so believe me IT IS POSSIBLE in lots of cases, given the right circumstances.

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