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MENTAL ILLNESS - Learn to look for early warning signs of illness

By Kaye Dennan

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As a carer of a mentally ill loved one you will go through one of the biggest learning curves you will ever face. Unless you have experience in seeing this illness before it will be a real eye opener. In my writings I take the positive, in that I believe in Recovery. In saying that, I know that this is not always true and I have heard some heart wrenching stories along the way.

If you are dealing with your caring role on a day to day basis then it is important that you learn as quick as you can, strategies to cope with various situations. And believe me, with certain illnesses there are many different situations. Some illnesses can have the sufferer going through changing moods, paranoia, bad attitudes and more within minutes. All these changes make it very hard for the carer to cope.

As time goes along and you start experiencing repetition in the problems you can start looking for early warning signs of illness. By doing this you will be able to discuss these signs with the person with the lived experience during calmer moments. I have often heard it said, "But he/she is so ill I just cant discuss anything", and yes, at times this may be true. Keeping in mind the type of illness you are dealing with, there will more than likely be small windows of time where you will be able to open up some sort of discussion. Sometimes these windows of opportunity are so small and there can be so many issues to be discussed, that you will have to prioritise them. Keeping a diary or notepad, at least, of issues to be discussed helps relieve some of the stress because you know you have it on paper and it wont be forgotten.

A fairly easy to read sign, once you have seen it several times, is the harrowed look in their eyes which could be fear or exhaustion, or in the case of a person with bipolar it could be the opposite, in that they may be in a manic phase and look exhilarated. Early warning signs could range from agitation, pacing, yelling, isolation, not eating, total non-activity, hand signing or other signs depending on the illness involved.

Once you have become skilled at noticing these signs you can deal with it much sooner than you would have and have strategies set up to cope. It could be medication that needs to be addressed,stress over a job, or appointment or whatever it is, but don't delay and if you can foresee trouble ahead you can get hold of doctors and counsellors for back up help.

In the early days of caring life is often lived with the "it will get better soon" attitude, and this may be so for some people, but the reality is, that it may not. Because dealing with the whole situation can be so stressful try to plan ahead for doctors appointments by making notes of concerns you have and questions you want answers to, otherwise there is a good chance you will forget at the time.

As a carer I would encourage you to work on coping strategies as much as helping your loved one. AND coping may mean making sure that you have an interest outside the family just for yourself alone and do it on a regular basis. It may be a hobby, it may be just walking around the shops, having a coffee or a dinner out, but make sure you look after yourself as well. You are doing a very hard job and you deserve to be rewarded for it too!

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