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Feel, Do Not Be

By Mark Shapiro

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Published: 24Feb2012
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I'm a judgment expert that writes too much. I assert: It is better to feel ok than to be ok. It is better to feel rich than to be rich. It's better to feel happy than to actually be happy. My article offers the reasons why I am confident in making these claims.

Change is constant, and to a certain level, in some way or the other; all things are fragile and temporary. Nothing lasts forever or is guaranteed. A very rare, however really clear example would be, what if you are actually ok in all ways, and a meteorite later falls from the night and strikes you? I claim that it's better to feel ok, than it is to "actually" be ok.

Actually being ok (when judged by your imagination, or by an outside society/media standard), relies on the whole shebang, beginning with your health, avoiding severe pain, and getting sufficient money.

If all things are going well, you're actually ok in actual life, yet someday, some of everyone's actual reality won't stay "ok" as defined by external or imagined standards.

Feeling good could be your choice which doesn't rely on your situation. If you're ok with everything, you tend to suffer less. In life, to feel pain is mandatory, suffering is optional.

Feeling ok always make you happier, than wondering if you actually are ok. Why worry about if you actually are now, and are going to stay ok? Actually being ok is not as reliable or solid, as intentionally feeling you are ok is. It's better to feel ok, than to be ok.

I claim that its better to feel rich than it is to actually be rich. Probably 99 percent of the people in our world feels and think they don't have enough money. That means there may be a 99 percent chance you won't actually be "ok" money-wise, in actual life.

Alternatively, what if you constantly felt like you had lots of of money? You could then use your time attempting to save money, make money, and pay bills. You can feel much better feeling rich, than if you constantly worried about your bills and debts.

I think about paying bills only when I pay them. If I think about money, I focus solely on saving and making money. For me, its a fun hobby. This type of thinking allows me to feel good about money, and stop worrying.

I claim that its better to feel happy than to actually be happy. Many people seem to mirror their environment. If they are sick, poor, lonely, or old, they stay sad. If or when something great happens, they get temporarily happy.

There are 2 ways to get happier. One way relies on everything or something being or staying right.

Another way to get happier is to detach somewhat, and feel good no matter what is going on. Feeling happy if the world isn't, is a learned skill. For some, meditation can help, you must follow your own path. Ideally, one may learn to enjoy your situation or your work, or a way to enjoy them more.

Thinking "Am I happy?", or predicting a time or event that makes you happy, is usually a total waste of thought. It's best to imagine happiness, invent happiness, or make happiness out of the air, and then focus on on what you do, not what the world does.

Worrying is useless. When you can effect an outcome for the positive, then act. When you can't, then accept you can't, and then hope for the best. An interesting talk concerning happiness, is at http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_we_happy.html.

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