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This is a very romantic date idea. You'll have a ton of fun learning to give your girl the best kiss she's ever had. You must be in a good place in the relationship and have done some ground work to get the biggest impact.
Here's what you'll need: mints, hard candies, light fruits (like strawberries, grapes, pineapple, watermelon), chocolate (but use sparingly), water, bottle of white wine (red can cause breath issues), candles and something to light them with, soft music, blanket to sit on and a baby sitter if kids are in the picture (arrange this at least 2 days before the date).
Location: In the house or the park or anywhere you will have privacy
The Date: This date is very simple, but needs to be handled with delicacy. The whole premise is to get both of your juices flowing. You might think that this is very corny, but we guarantee it to be a huge hit! This is one date you will want to practice, practice, practice!
Here is the set up; tell your girl that you want to give her the best kiss she's ever had. Let her know that you have an interesting date planned and tell her the theme of the date is to find the perfect kiss for the two of you.
For example, you may want to tell her the following or something similar with your own spin: "I would like to have picnic style date on the floor with candles, wine, and a romantic conversation about the perfect kiss between the two of us.....Interested?"
If there are kids in the picture, make sure to get a sitter. One of the best ways to make sure you always have a sitter available is to talk to your girl and see if the two of you can babysit for a neighbor, friend or family member another time - making babysitting into a family event can score you great points.
Set the scene with the blanket, the candles, and the music.
Start the perfect kiss date with small talk and pour the wine. Shortly after you get started tell her about your favorite kiss that the two of you have shared, then invite her to share her story.
Now the fun begins. Basically you talk and let her tell you what to do, then practice. Try it with different flavors and letting her coach you. You should also share your thoughts of what she can do to please you!
Words of warning: Do not expect your first kiss to be the magic bullet. Do not get impatient. Let it happen and it will. Take your time and be very open to her coaching; she is simply playing the game you created. If she does not give you any guidance, she is afraid to hurt your feelings and needs you to encourage her. You should make it absolutely OK for her to say anything and correct you in any way to help create that perfect kiss. If you let your little Nancy Boy ego get in the way, this date will go south in a hurry. It is not personal; it is a game and should be FUN!
The impact of this date can be huge if it is handled delicately. Plan to take your time and make it into an entire night of talking about and practicing the perfect kiss the two of you are going to create with each other, then let it flow to wherever it takes the two of you! You can do this date every six months or so to keep the kissing hot. If you're lucky, she'll be the one that asks to repeat this date.
Trust us on this one, your brain will be screaming that this is the corniest thing in the world, but if it is out of your character it will be that much stronger. If you are open to it you may just learn how to give her the best kiss of her life again and again! Nothing will make her hotter!
Phil Gilliam is the founder and president of AverageGuy, Inc. His goal is to positively impact the lives of 1 million men through education and coaching. Visit AverageGuy.com to get many more date ideas and relationship help.
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