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Tips For Creating A Happy Marriage

By Rachael Stone

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Published: 24Oct2009
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On the day of your wedding, did you give any thought to creating a happy marriage? Most people just assume they will be happy. They are marrying the person they love and they foresee no problems. But, there is nothing further from the truth. The marriage that is going to last must have effort put forth by both partners. Here are some helpful marriage tips.

Being a Good Listener

A marriage is a partnership and sometimes one or the other of the partners is going to have a bad day. It could be due to something that happened at work or it could just be one of those days when everything seems to go wrong. If it is due to something that happened, telling your spouse what they should have done is not what they want to hear at this point. They are already considering this themselves.

Be a willing listener. Often this will help more than anything. If they want to know what you would have done in their situation, they will ask. They may feel immensely better after getting their problem out in the open instead of keeping it bottled up inside.

Stop Nagging!

No one likes to constantly have someone nagging them about one thing or another. This is one of the reasons for many failed marriages. Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Would you like to be on the receiving end of the nagging you are doing? No, you would not.

Instead of nagging, learn to be quiet, to simply let go, or to find solutions together. A nice tip is to think about how important an issue is to you. If you really don't care about the issue - let the person do it their way even if it is not the way you would do it. Being considerate and treating each other like partners means nagging is not an option.

Share Your Lives

In most marriages today, both partners work. If they do not hold a full or part time job outside the home, they still work. Anyone who tells you being a stay at home parent is not work is fooling themselves. Irregardless of what type of job couples have, they need to have time to share the things that go on in their daily lives.

This is important to staying in touch with each others feelings. The lines of communication are open. This is very important to both partners. It does not take long to lose touch with each other if you are not sharing the small things as well as the bigger ones.

Do not forget to ask, "How was your day?" Some people make the mistake of bombarding their spouse with the events of their day as soon as they step through the door. What would happen if instead you make a pattern of always welcoming each other with love? When you know you will be welcomed with love when you come home, you look forward to coming home.

The Special Things

Doing nice things for each other can become a habit. Make his favorite meal or bring her flowers. The special things do not have to be gifts. It can be something as simple as leaving a note somewhere your spouse will find it to remind them how much they mean to you.

Give him a call sometime during the day just to say, "I love you." Take off early one day to take her to the movies. Bring home take out if you know she has had a really tiresome day. Meet him for lunch and if you are close to a park, take a picnic.

Be Considerate of the Other Person's Feelings

Sometimes we get so caught up in our own feelings that we forget others have them as well. Hurt feelings can cause major problems when one partner feels the other does not consider their feelings important. Never be above saying, "I am sorry." Being considerate and understanding is part of being a caring human being.

A happy marriage is not going to happen on its own. Do not take your partner for granted. This is another very serious mistake. Sometimes we get so used to someone being there, we never consider the alternative. Becoming too complacent and expecting everything to remain the same may one day cause you to have a rude awakening.

Everyone likes to feel they are special to someone. When you cease to make someone feel they are important to you, they may find that feeling elsewhere. Be kind, be considerate, be there. A happy marriage is not difficult; it just takes two willing partners.

We hopes this helps you have many years of happiness. Celebrate with anniversary rings to demonstrate your love.

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