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Why is Abuse in Any Form Accepted?

By Shirlee Hall

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There are people who attract abuse all their lives. They blame others for their pain. The question to ask is who really is to blame? I feel abuse is a soul issue. If there is something amiss in the soul, whether it be from a long ago forgotten time or experiences remembered, there is a definite imbalance in the energy field. Something serious is obstructed. If an individual feels good about his or her self, abuse is not as likely to be attracted or allowed. Somewhere in the journey the imbalance occurred. It is likely that the wounds have been of a repetitive nature. Disturbances in the energy field remain unless addressed. It is vitally important that we free ourselves from the hurt, anger and the lingering wounds people and events have directed toward us. Even more important is the abuse we direct toward ourselves. Why is abuse in any form accepted? Once accepted, it is similar to a maligancy.

I feel that humans allow injuries to be stored in the subconscious through lack of a higher knowledge of mental law, which also includes a spiritual ignorance. Spiritual ignorance is not understanding your soul identity and the purpose of life. When understanding is lacking, wounds fester and the human hasn't the faintest clue that he or she is the one who is the abuser. A soul's journey is not honored if abuse is allowed in any form. The physical body is the temple for the soul and the spirit. How can true love, joy and harmony exist if the body, mind and soul is not honored? Who takes the time to analyze what is really going on? Many people do not understand that their thoughts and behavior are undermining the very structure of their being. It is easier to blame another than looking at one's own pattern of reacting. When one is both the abuser and the abused, a state of inner disorder continues to attact pain, lack and confusion.

Forgiveness is the angelic road that leads to healing. If we do not forgive others and ourselves, we create strong and unhealthy bonds that continue into future experiences. It is in the forgiving of our lower nature, the ongoing mistakes, that will help us realize that an inner state of disorder is abuse. What is even worse is that the disorder is accepted as normal. The goal is to bring order out of disorder. People get so used to being hurt and in pain that they do not realize the depth of healing that is needed. They become too wounded to care. When we are wounded, we consciously cut ourselves off from our true Source, God. Forgiveness is a beginning~

The ideal is to have our energy flowing effortlessly. The direction and modulation of human energy flow begins in the mind and is empowered by the mind. It stands to reason that if the mind is in a confused or negative state, trouble manifests in the physical body. I always refer back to the Indian concept of human energies mentioned in the Rig-Veda dating back a couple thousand of years ago. Their experiential knowledge states that there are three types of energies concerned with the balance of the body, mind and soul. If you have not explored the many excellent tools for balancing your energy fields, I suggest that you do. We are complex beings. Knowledge of the energy fields will help bring the necessary balance so further abuse is not allowed.

The repetitive use of creative imagination has repeatedly proven to heal wounds both within and without. If there is someone in your life who is a constant irritant, imagine the two of you tied together with a heavy rope standing on a bare stage. Next, imagine an authority figure walking toward you and cutting the ropes that bind you to an unhealthy bond with this other person. See the ropes fall to the floor. Now that the bonds have been severed, embrace the other person and forgive. Keep repeating this visualization until you have a definite feeling that the desired result is achieved. You will know by a sigh and the lack of a negative emotional reaction. Begin honoring your self and refuse to experience any further abuse.

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