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4 Things To Ask Yourself Before Your Next Relationship

By Vera Esther

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Published: 03Mar2012
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I know the last thing you want to think about when a relationship ends is…that relationship. Generally, people try to do whatever they can to forget about a breakup until they feel healed enough to date someone new.

But, you might find yourself in the same position again (broken up) if you don't stop and analyze your last relationship(s). Here are some questions to get you on the right track:

Who changed? Think back to the beginning of the relationship when the two of you couldn't get enough of one another. How did you treat one another? How were you feeling in your individual life? If you pay close attention to the details, you'll probably find that either you, or your partner, or both of you changed. You stopped treating each other the same way, or circumstances in you lives changed that made your moods change. If you're the one who changed, that's good to be aware of because you don't want that to happen again.

Why did that change occur? If it was your partner who changed, there was little you could do about that. But if it was you, find out why. Was it because work became too demanding and you stopped making time for your partner? Or you just took your stress out on him? Did something tragic happen in your life that depressed you? Or, did you maybe start going after some of your dreams, and didn't feel you could relate to your partner anymore?

Why did I like this person? Consider the traits you enjoyed in the person—the traits that you recognize made them a good partner. Perhaps it was their patience in sticky situations, their ability to talk to you about emotional subjects, their ambition. Find out what made it work and seek those qualities out in the next person.

Why didn't I like this person? Hey-they're out of your life now. Now you can be real. What didn't you like about this person? What was it about them that made life more difficult? Did they not support your passions? Maybe they thought it was dumb you wanted to take singing lessons at your age. Maybe they didn't understand why you were quitting your mediocre job and trying to start your own business as a voice coach. Whether it was as small as them not supporting you wanting to become a better singer or as big as them not backing you up on your career choices, think about how this person hindered your happiness.

Vera Esther covers topics in luxury living, healthy habits and relationships. Her articles and blog posts have been published on dozens of websites and her unique titles such as "How to Tell If You're A Dating Addict" and "Improve Your Voice With Your Computer" (an article about an interactive site created by a renowned Los Angeles voice coach) have grabbed the attention of various audiences.

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