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• How To Cut Her If You're Already Involved
  These are women who complain A LOT. They always seem to find something wrong with what they are getting, no matter the quality.
  Published 29Jan2010, viewed 234 times

• What Jobs Are Best for Meeting Women.
  As you probably remember, I've covered the whole dating-in-the-workplace thing quite a bit by now, but this email brings up some subtler points I haven't addressed yet.
  Published 24Jan2010, viewed 234 times

• Is There Such a Thing As Fate? Is There Someone for Everyone?
  I want to begin by pointing out something very obvious, that you may not have thought about in terms of dating.
  Published 21Jan2010, viewed 235 times

• How To Pick Women Up in Traffic
  And there are definitely ways to adapt to the inherent obstacles of meeting women in traffic, or any situation for that matter.
  Published 17Jan2010, viewed 233 times

• Is Learning Pick Up Different From Other Topics?
  When your focus is under your control, it's not hard to pay attention to the things that convey you are a man she can feel safe OBEYING.
  Published 15Jan2010, viewed 232 times

• What Are The Finishing Touches To Your Game?
  You need to date enough women you feel are on your "level" that you don't think of them as special and you don't feel lucky anymore.
  Published 13Jan2010, viewed 211 times

• Maintaining a Harem of Women
  It's every man's dream to have three or four girlfriends. I'm not talking about actual GIRLFRIENDS, where you have to see them all the time.
  Published 11Jan2010, viewed 473 times

• How to Deal with Different TYPES of Women
  And we get guys from all walks of life: teen-age college students, twenty-something partiers, 30-something professionals, 40 and 50 year old single guys, divorcees, and different experience levels at all ages.
  Published 11Jan2010, viewed 332 times

• How to Deal with Negative Friendships
  I wanted to write to you because of you expertise on this subject... I want to ask you if how to deal with friends that want to hold me back. Like I go out and try to do the stuff getting to know them and approaching like I care about others and it works great!
  Published 08Jan2010, viewed 618 times

• Don't Let Her Take advantage of you
  So you should always be sending a message that you deserve respect, that you have a lot to offer the world and women, and that you're intentions are good.
  Published 08Jan2010, viewed 257 times

• How To Deal with a Woman Who's Crazy (But Hot)
  First date. Everything goes great - we share a lot of laughs, a couple glasses of wine, and go back to my place for a movie, then a massage (she gives me one of the best back massages I've ever had), and then...more fun.
  Published 07Jan2010, viewed 227 times

• How to Turn Fast Pick-up Into Eternal Casual Relationships
  I want to make these girls into actual girlfriends. It's like I sleep with girls, but then when I try to call them or set up another date or whatever they don't get back to me. I have to like start over every dang time. What do I do to take it to the next level (we covered this on Sunday but I'm having trouble I think in making the girl think that I really like her like I have a player vibe maybe or something...
  Published 06Jan2010, viewed 168 times

• Make Yourself the Object of Desire
  Now here's the exciting part. After a couple flirty text messages back and forth we got together at a wine bar near my apartment (I'm on the young side of middle age, divorced, but I have a pretty cool bachelor pad I must say). So I'm thinking we'll have a couple drinks and maybe rent a movie to watch at my place if things go well. Well, things go VERY well.
  Published 03Jan2010, viewed 363 times

• The First Steps on the Road to Success with Women
  Too bad you don't have a woman to rest her pretty little head on your lap...what could be better? Some mind-numbing TV, a nice cold beer, and a pretty girl to cuddle up with you after a long day.
  Published 03Jan2010, viewed 242 times

• How to Break a Woman's Heart
  And I could see that this was making them unhappy and hurting the other aspects of their lives, because they were obsessed with winning me over.
  Published 01Jan2010, viewed 947 times

• 5 Ways To Take Over The Venue
  That intention may not always be clear, depending on the context. But if LEADING is part of your nature - your belief system - you will do it REGARDLESS OF CONTEXT.
  Published 26Dec2009, viewed 184 times

• Turning Small Talk into Intimate Talk
  I'm really trying to be more aware of myself and be a better person. I see all my buddies either starting families, or doing the same single guy routine but the common thing in both is that they aren't changing and growing into better men. The family guys just get more serious and the single guys just get more weird and desperate.
  Published 25Dec2009, viewed 245 times

• How To Use a Woman's Games To Your Advantage
  The first is the smooth player, who pretends to like her, but is only interested in screwing her for a notch on his belt.
  Published 25Dec2009, viewed 276 times

• Avoid Mistakes If You Want a Drama-Free Sensual Life
  Women who require a lot of sensual tension will usually get turned off if you stop and get logical. She doesn't want to think. She wants to play and get swept off her feet.
  Published 21Dec2009, viewed 223 times

• Are You Telegraphing Desperation?
  We all have a little neediness in us. As a man, you WANT to sleep with women. If you didn't, you'd be gay.
  Published 20Dec2009, viewed 235 times

• Stuck in The Player Phase?
  Women are calling you a player every time you try to pick them up. They ask you things like, "how many girls have you talked to tonight?"
  Published 19Dec2009, viewed 205 times

• What Does Escalation Require?
  Get any girl's phone number: get girlfriend And turn the type of woman your friends go green with envy over, into your loyal girlfriend: how to get girlfriend
  Published 18Dec2009, viewed 178 times

• What is Pro Pua Convo Like?
  When I coach guys, I'm always torn about how much to tell them. Not about actual tools they need to be master pickup artists. But about myself. If I were to go into detail about my life, it would probably look like bragging.
  Published 16Dec2009, viewed 291 times

• What's Really in Your Control?
  As pickup artists, we tend to think that we can have every women in the world, if we can get "good" enough skills.
  Published 16Dec2009, viewed 181 times

• Consequence Switches
  I don't advocate guys trying too hard to "say the right thing" to women. This kind of mindset will only hold you back, and will clog your mind from being creative and in the moment.
  Published 16Dec2009, viewed 213 times

• Preparation for Approaching Women
  I talk a lot about the turning point in my pickup ability where I dropped all pre-scripted material. I was going out, night after night, saying prescripted stories and routines. I even had jokes prepared.
  Published 10Dec2009, viewed 214 times

• Why Attraction Doesn't Always Mean Sleeping with Her
  One thing I've realized in the past couple years is how true the following statement is: A woman can be attracted to you, but still decide not to sleep with you.
  Published 04Dec2009, viewed 187 times

• Dating Tips for Guys: Making Beyond a Regular Guy
  People make a lot of assumptions about me when they find out what I do for money. But they make even more assumptions about my clients. People think that only a guy who wants to be a womanizer would take Drills. Others think that all my clients must be total losers.
  Published 03Dec2009, viewed 250 times

• If You Don't Flip the Script, Someone Else Will
  There's a resource that I've tried that gives me a complete strategy for "flipping the script" with women you date.
  Published 26Nov2009, viewed 470 times

• The Right Mindset for Fast, Easy Hookups
  First, in the interaction, there was the sense that the girl was trying to impress me. Now if this is something you're unaccustomed to, let me paint a picture.
  Published 19Nov2009, viewed 249 times

• How To Make Women Cater To You
  I've never been one to sit on my laurels. Even though I have amazing women in my life, who live to serve and please me, I never stop learning.
  Published 18Nov2009, viewed 232 times

• Can a Woman Actually Fall In Love with You?
  After sometime, she began to confide in me. We'd study together, and end up talking about dating and relationships. She was seeing this guy, who, at the time, seemed like a total jerk. She'd tell me all the things he supposedly did (or didn't do) and I'd just end up thinking,
  Published 16Nov2009, viewed 273 times

• Keeping the Conversation Rolling
  When I first discovered the pickup community, there was this crazy obsession for conversational "routines." At the time it SEEMED like a novel idea. Except it wasn't. If you're life is not in order, you will have a hard time "saying the right thing" to women.
  Published 08Nov2009, viewed 236 times

• Why Do Some Guys Have the "Gift of Gab"?
  Most guys who have the "gift of gab" with women had POWERFUL, AFFIRMING EXPERIENCES with women when they were young. But at some point I realized I had no other choice but to pull up my bootstraps and BUST MY BUTT to figure this out.
  Published 07Nov2009, viewed 368 times

• What makes a "good" conversation with a woman?
  Think about how you approach conversation with women. You are looking for the right words to say.
  Published 26Sep2009, viewed 304 times

• Why Do Women Avoid You?
  The first way to minimize the chances of a woman flaking on you is by having a GREAT first interaction. If there's chemistry, odds are, she will be very motivated to answer the phone, or call/text you back.
  Published 18Oct2009, viewed 398 times

• Do You Know Why Girls Don't Call You Back?
  There?s nothing more frustrating than spending an hour spitting game to a girl at the bar, only to call her the next day and not get an answer. In the era of cell-phones, it?s understandable if you don?t get an answer the first time you call. But there you are, waiting for her to call you back.
  Published 17Oct2009, viewed 565 times

• What Makes a Woman Want To See You Again
  The problem with a woman flaking out on you is that you seldom get an explanation. If only you knew what you did WRONG, you could FIX IT. But women aren't very helpful in this arena, as I've learned the hard way.
  Published 16Oct2009, viewed 327 times

• Your Memories Deceive You
  There is some interesting research out there that shows us just how inaccurate our memories are. In fact, a good amount of what we think we remember was actually placed in our minds AFTER the event.
  Published 19Sep2009, viewed 296 times

• Beware of Facebook!
  I'm just as guilty as you. I made a Facebook profile. Actually I've had one for awhile now. There's things I like about it. It's easy to stay in touch with people. I've got friends from high school, acquaintances, old flings, old friends, business associates, you name it.
  Published 17Sep2009, viewed 311 times

• Terrorism and Social Brainwashing
  The news is crazy these days. It seems like I'm constantly bombarded with news about some terrorist attack, or a terrorist who was apprehended, or soldiers killed trying to stop terrorists.
  Published 08Oct2009, viewed 271 times

• Why the economy will help your game?
  Everyone's complaining about the economy. But I have to say, I really can't relate. I guess I have to deal with inflation, gas prices, and all of my investments taking a hit. But one area I'm not struggling with is, you guessed it! WOMEN.
  Published 27Sep2009, viewed 239 times

• How Music Is Killing Your Chances With Women
  I love music. A lot of times, I'll need to listen to music just to get motivated to do stuff like work, or go for a run, or even before I go out with friends. Music is an important part of my life, as I'm sure it's an important part of yours.
  Published 26Sep2009, viewed 234 times

• Interesting Things About Being Generous to Women
  Random people were approached on the street and asked to think of a) a favorite piece of music, or b) a romantic encounter they had or would like to have.
  Published 17Sep2009, viewed 289 times

• The Hindrance to your Success with Women
  Are you stuck in a feedback loop? Understood/Affinity - I'm a neurotic nerdy loser like you It can be really tough starting from nothing. What I mean is, if you haven't been very successful with women in the past, it's really hard getting the ball rolling.
  Published 09Sep2009, viewed 322 times

• Why Women are Scared of You?
  I remember shoplifting when I was a teenager. I didn't do it often - only a couple times, but I vividly recall how nervous I was.
  Published 28Aug2009, viewed 410 times

• How to Know if the Woman is Attracted to You?
  In the past, I would assume that if a girl didn't twirl her hair, twinkle her eyes, and smile shyly, that she wasn't into me. I literally thought that women sent signals like this to guys if they were attracted to him. Now I know exactly what to look for. I see the matrix, and let me tell you, there are signals EVERYWHERE.
  Published 26Aug2009, viewed 2284 times

• It's Not What You Say, It's What You Don't Say
  Women make assumptions about men. They think they know how we think. They assume all we want is get intimate with them, and that we are emotionally 'dead' or devoid of emotions. Not always, but these are predominant stereotypes women have about men.
  Published 23Aug2009, viewed 301 times

• Why Your Video Game Obsession Can Be A Good Thing
  Most guys are into video games. There?s something about the goal-achievement structure, and the high level of focus required.
  Published 21Aug2009, viewed 225 times

• Focus - A Success in Your Attraction with Women
  The interesting thing is that the guy who's coming with the most anger, the most attacks, and the "tough war veteran" attitude is actually NOT the most dominant of the two candidates.
  Published 19Aug2009, viewed 216 times

• How to Become Successful with Women
  You may think that you lack experience, and this lack of experience is holding you back. Or even if you were good with women at one time, and have just "lost your touch," you may think that you don't know "enough."Get
  Published 17Aug2009, viewed 296 times

• 10 Mistakes that Guys Makes in Approaching Woman
  I've seen guys who were short, scrawny, and nerdy-looking walk into a club and leave with the hottest girl in the place. I've seen good-looking, confident guys freeze up when I told them to approach, and then hide from me the rest of the night!
  Published 13Aug2009, viewed 460 times

• Myths Revealed: What Women Wants on a Date
  I finally realized, after literally hundreds of failed dates, what women really want when they go on a "date" with a guy. And it's not what most guys think - in fact, they don't even want a "date." Now of course, women say all kinds of things about what they want...and then when the guy tries to give it to her, it falls flat.
  Published 05Aug2009, viewed 282 times

• Three things that Sabotage the Success with Women in the Club Scene
  I can remember in my younger days spending night after night in bars and clubs, approaching so many women I'd lose count in a single night. As I recall in my younger, It's all kind of a blur to me now. But looking back, I realize I made a TON of mistakes.
  Published 01Aug2009, viewed 229 times

• Pick Up Lines: Easy Opportunities to Meet Women
  Women don't expect to be approached during the day, or in any other environment besides the bar. In fact, they are usually really surprised and shocked if a man walks up to them and strikes up a conversation in a regular place like a store or even on the street. If you approach a woman somewhere outside of the bar, you're going to be talking to someone who isn't "mentally prepared" to have an engaged conversation.
  Published 30Jul2009, viewed 346 times

• The Motivation to Get a Girlfriend
  Most of the guys that come to me for training are the same way - it's kind of an unspoken thing that guys studying pickup all share. Guys who are naturally outgoing and social naturally meet a lot of women and typically have decent dating lives.
  Published 28Jul2009, viewed 997 times

• Dating tips for men: Improvisation
  There's a myth out there that says a man has to be interesting to attract women. You even hear women espousing this garbage themselves. If you ask a woman what she would like a guy to say as an opening line, they say things like, "say something interesting" or "I like a man to make me laugh," or "be unique, don't just say what all the other guys say."
  Published 23Jul2009, viewed 375 times

• Pick Up Artist: Specific Logistical Issues
  The most important thing to remember about logistics is that it is about moving a woman to a sexy-location without missing windows of escalation.
  Published 22Jul2009, viewed 357 times

• Rapport Myths and Facts
  Rapport is highly misunderstood. One example of this misunderstanding is the idea that "rapport" is a phase that one goes through, in a chronological process of courtship.
  Published 11Jun2009, viewed 288 times

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