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Wedding Speeches - Groom Speeches

By William Burnell

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Some men view this part of the wedding with fear and trepidation. They can approach it in a number of ways: wing it, and hope it will be all right on the day; have a few drinks to relax and loosen the vocal chords and release the "comedian" within; prepare thoroughly and do the best job possible so that the bride will be proud and everyone will be suitably impressed.

Preparation is the Key

Nothing replaces preparation. Your speech will be as good as the time you spend on it. Write, rewrite it and polish it. You should know it thoroughly by the time you have to deliver it. The more you think about it, the more the phrases and structure will be imbedded in your mind. This helps enormously if you get sidetracked during the speech or you forget some of your lines. You can call on a phrase or two keep going. You will know it is not exactly what you meant to say but no one else will. Use notes with headings to keep you on track.

Relax

Easier said than done, I know, but you can slow down your breathing and mentally let any tension go. Do not act in a nervous way. Pretend to be calm and you will be calm. The atmosphere helps, because by the time you have to make your speech, the rest of the room are enjoying themselves. It is a happy occasion so most people are ready to listen in an amused, uncritical way. You can pick up on this feeling of goodwill and relaxation to help put you in the same mood. You can decide to enjoy your speech.

Be Sincere

This is no time for complete frivolity. You have to be sincere when you toast your bride and do it to the best of your ability. You surely have to be sincere when you toast your parents and your bride's parents. Of course, you can be light-hearted and talk about funny incidents that highlight what you want to say but be careful about trying to be too funny - particularly at another's expense. You could live to regret it in the years to come.

Say What You Have to Say

Do not get up and ramble on. Say what you have to say and sit down. People get bored very quickly. They want to get on with enjoying themselves. If you are sincere and to the point, they will be on your side and applaud enthusiastically. They will consider you have made a good speech and will compliment you. If you have fumbled about, rambled on and generally gone nowhere, they will simply not mention your speech or feel they have to come up with half-hearted compliments.

There is no reason to make a bad speech at your wedding. You owe it to your bride, the guests and to yourself to do the best you can. Your efforts will be well rewarded by a proud bride and parents and by grateful guests. When you look back in later years you will feel good about the whole day and your contribution.

William Burnell has been a groom, a best man, father of the bride 4 times and a wedding MC. He has delivered many other speeches over the years and he knows how daunting speaking in front of an audience can be. You will find all the help you need and a wide choice of professionally written wedding speeches that you can make your own at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-make-a-wedding-speech

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